friend?

i love friends. i thank God for my friends. i treasure friendships. i am a loyal friend. and i easily trust friends. and i just found out today, it's not that good to be that way... al least not too much. i am in pain to know that one of my close friends (or so i thought) didn't like it that i 'just barge into their house' ... uh oh ... aren't friends supposed to be that?

lesson: not all people are like me. i like it when my friends barge into my house... they can even open my fridge without permission... they can sleep in my bed (read:girl friends!!!) i can share my undies (clean!) with them... that's my definition of friendship.

lesson: not all people have the same definition of friendship. hah! sad.

did i expect too much from the friendship? thus the next lesson: not all people who ask you to be ninang of their kids consider you close friend! (kasakit jud ani oi .. i pray to God i will be able to forgive ASAP) i will get over this. tomorrow is a new day. that 'friend' will learn her lesson too. in God's time.

if it's bad to blog about it, forgive me. i am just soooo upset and dissapointed. will you pray for me? that i will change for the better? that next time, i will not enter a friend's house without asking for an appointment... duh...

12 comments:

felinelostindwilderness said...

First of all, you have a right to be upset and it's okay to vent it out through blogs. Another thing to perk you up, at least you got the resources to vent it up and that is the internet..eheheheh.

Secondly, as we grow older in life, we may soon realize who are our so-called "real friends" are.

Thirdly, those who think they can't be our friends, gets the f*ck out cause we don't want to waste time and energy (sorry for being blunt needless to say, we got other stuff to do and unnecessary matters like that don't have to bother us at all.

Lastly, be proud of yourself and ignore the fact that some people are just people and just like what you said some people change and other stuff changes in our lives and sometimes or most of the times we have no control of, so...CHILL BEBANG!!!! you got to get the groove back on bebe..eheh..

momoftwo said...

Hayy, that's life! Sometimes we thought someone to be our friends turned out to be not so so friend. Now you know whom you can really call your friends. Sige lng life must go on and are u thankful you found out early whom you can call your friends?

bebang rulona ... said...

thank you kaayo Maps and Miming for affirming my emotions. kadlaw ko sa kalipay sa inyo comment.. na feel ko indi ako nag iisa hehehe lab ta kamo duha hee... hulat ko pa dugay2 ma comment nana si anne2 hehe

about sa 'frend' i pray konalang sya nga this experience will teach her (kay man gin text ko na sya sang tanan ko na kalain sang buot) ... i hope she'll get the message. haaay.

TRU FRENDS ARE FEW. THAT'S WHY I TREASURE YOU...

My name is Anne said...

si caroline, ang pinaka memorable part para sa akon years back, was when she would run up to the bedroom kag buklason ya ang muskitero kag bunggawon ya ko.gina buyayaw ko sya dayon, pero syempre lipay ko ya eh, esp kn may dala sya bibingka.hehehe

ti nag reply na sya?well,you have to understand man her feelings,and where she's coming from.basi amo gid na sya sa tanan niya nga friends.pero super suya gd ko pag read ko sang blog mo.kn sin-o man gid na sya, indi ko na sya like.i just hope she'll be able to give a very good reason why she doesn't want her 'friend/friends' barging in.

but above all, ma feel mo man na inday, kon daw indi gid sya true sa imo. ang na notice ko lang galing sa imo, very oblivious ka.pareho kmo dit. ako i can feel kn may certain friend ka nga daw capable of hurting you. chat ta bala, then tell me who's that 'friend' of yours. basi pa lang amo na sya ang wala ko na gustuhan sang pag bday ni uji.hehehehe

bebang rulona ... said...

yes balos sya:'Godbless Gang' ayti, sa kadamo damo sang gin text ko sa iya amo to iya reply. that only shows kun ano value ko sa iya. wala ko na feel nga indi ko welcome kay sa totoo lang naka sleep na kami ni uji sa ila haws one afternoon, gina pasugat ya ko na di sa amon many times when she needs company kag everytime i barge in to her house, SUPER DUPER WELCOME kami katama, KAG INDI KO PAPULION KUN GUSTO KO NA MAGPULI. MASUNGGOD DAYUN meaning KILALA MO SI PLACTIC? all those times gali deep within her indi sya true towards me. the worst of it all kay sa lain nga tawo ko ni nabatian... well lapit na ko ma heal hihi u know naman me, indi ko ya dumot. oblivious gani hihi .. korek ka gid da sa term mo ... sige YM ta.

felinelostindwilderness said...

hehe hindi mo gid na ya malimtan Belle no?! Ambot ah permi ko to ya sa inyo gapanumbalay..heheh..feeling ko feel at home man ko to daan sa inyo! feeling badilla man abi ang kuring! bwahahaha!!!! naton kay gapanakab ko to sa inyo wala lang kamo kabalo..

bleeeeeh!!!

bebang rulona ... said...

hehehe takaban nga kuring ay.. mayo lang wla ka to nabulasot hahaha =)

felinelostindwilderness said...

heheeh..pati ah before ko mangaw-et galisensha ko to ya sa kay mamang or papang nio..eheheh labs ko ya nila no? bleeeeh!

miles said...

HHMM ako ya ka attest gid nga si gen ya open gid na ang home niya para sa true friends niya ...hulam duster niya kun mag tulog ko sa ila balay ah..hehehe ...lov e you gen ...friends may come and go but those who are true will always be there for you sans the distance and time ..its the loving thoughts and wishes and prayers that will stay for a wonderful friend like you

miles said...

HHMM ako ya ka attest gid nga si gen ya open gid na ang home niya para sa true friends niya ...hulam duster niya kun mag tulog ko sa ila balay ah..hehehe ...lov e you gen ...friends may come and go but those who are true will always be there for you sans the distance and time ..its the loving thoughts and wishes and prayers that will stay for a wonderful friend like you

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